Few people respond well to unsolicited advice, although many times such advice is offered simply to be helpful or friendly. A parent, friend, or even a stranger may offer advice because they feel they can help and improve your life, if not forever, at least for today. Advice may be offered just as a means to stay connected with others or to start a conversation. Sometimes, too, people are so happy about how something has worked for them, they wish to share with others. There’s no reason to be upset by these reasons, although there are less well-motivated reasons for advice-giving.

Sometimes, people just need to feel needed, and so share their knowledge; they may be narcissistic , just wishing to hear themselves pontificate; but sometimes there are even darker reasons, such as wanting to demonstrate a dominance over you (i..e., I know better than you), or passing judgment upon a behavior (i.e., social groups attempting to control the behavior of people outside their group,). Some people simply have a desire to engage in drama (i.e., people who love conflict and like to hear themselves debate or argue an issue).

If you really need expert advice , though, it’s best to ignore any advice that you didn’t ask for; but, instead, seek out those people, whether they be parents, counselors, or doctors who have the knowledge you need without self-interest or condemnation. Advice from strangers is okay, too, as long as you know that stranger’s credentials, such as those available on Internet expert sites.

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It has often been said that desperate times call for desperate measures. Unfortunately for many of us that means we are currently stuck in less than enjoyable jobs. While we are grateful to have jobs, especially given the consistent rise in unemployment, there are things that we would much rather be doing than this. However, being an eternal optimist , I have decided that since we aren’t going anywhere for a while we should make the most out of the situation. Now is the time to begin preparing yourself for the future.
There is no better time than the present to increase your training or education. If there is a certain job or position that you desire, do some research online and see what the requirements are. That will help give you a goal to work towards if there is a degree that you need to complete or certifications that you need obtain. Begin working towards that job now so that when a position opens up you will be ready for it. You can also prepare by taking any business training or employee training seminars that your company might offer. These seminars are an excellent way to help you sharpen your skills and improve in areas that you might not be strong in.
Always keep your eyes open for new opportunities. And always do your best to leave a good first impression, you never know when a new connection could lead to your big break. Always do your best, if the job seems unimportant. Building strong connections, even at your current job, could help you in the future with opportunities or references.
Instead of just sitting around bemoaning the fact that you don’t have the job of your dreams, make the most of your time and your opportunities. You never know when the opportunity of a lifetime could sneak up right behind you.

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